Saturday, June 9, 2012

Author's Note: The Loss of Tipsy


Author’s Note:  I apologize for the very long hiatus in this blog…In fact, I’m very hangdog about the whole matter, and it’s all because I need to tell some tough truths. 





On October 26, 2011, my best Vizsla friend, Tipsy, died suddenly from hemangiosarcoma.  In typical Tipsy fashion, she didn’t complain and didn’t say anything was bothering her.  She appeared fine on Saturday at the Mom’s Agility Fundraiser, and she slept most of Sunday in the sun with Shadow while I went to the 5K with Mom and Dad.  Monday she seemed a little down, so off to Dr. King, and then she got very sick on Tuesday.  Mom and Dad took her to the Emergency Room on Wednesday where they learned how sick she really was - so sick that we needed to let her go.  She died in Mom’s arms, wagging her tail and all curled up as if she were taking a nap. Dad and MomZ there talking to her and sending her across the Rainbow Bridge to meet all the all other Zsoldos Vizlsas:  Minnie, Kicsi, Rebel, Janci and Zsuzsa all supervised by Laszlo Zsoldos, Mom’s Dad who died in 1984.

I don’t think I know where and what “dead” is.  From my view, Tipsy left in Dad’s arms and we didn’t see her ever again. How could she just leave the house and never come back?  It’s a mystery to me.  Mom and I have talked about it a lot.  She wanted me know to know though Tipsy was gone, she still loved me very, very much. 


Tipsy was Mom’s special dog. Although she was only with the pack for four years (she came to Mom’s home a year before I did), she and Mom became one heart. 



Tipsy always knew when Mom wasn’t feeling well. Tipsy was Mom’s napping dog.  She loved sleeping in the sun on the floor, and on Mom’s bed.  There was nothing both of them loved more than to curl up around each other and sleep. 






One thing I remember about Tipsy is that sunlight loved Tipsy.  On fine days when the door was open, the sun seemed to slow its march across the sky so that Tipsy could revel in it either curled up in a tight ball, lazily lying on her side where she could keep an eye on Mom, greedily offering her entire tummy up to the sun’s warm splendor.  The sun, itself, dimmed briefly in mourning when Tipsy left us.

To be with Tipsy was to experience love and life at its fullest.  She never met a person she didn’t like.  Trips to the bark park found her ignoring other dogs (unlike yours truly), but going from bench to bench, jumping up next to strangers, laying her head on their shoulder while her eyes caressed the new person.  You could see her saying, “I’m Tipsy, and I’ll be your social director during my stay here.”

Tipsy shared her love freely with all.  She allowed others to see the world through her eyes; her world was simple – eat, love, eat, roll in the grass, roll in goose poop (always a rare treat), roo-roo-roo for dinner stinky treats, put her head on someone’s leg and moan with deep content.

For those of you who have been lucky enough to have been owned by one of us Vizslas know that there as many reasons to love us as there are pieces little red hair that we leave around.  Our little red hairs have a magnetic attraction for any textured surface.  Our hair is impervious to removal by vacuum cleaners, masking tapes, lint rollers, and dog hair sponges.  MWHAHAHA

Tiny, little barbed hairs all over – Mom and Dad and every Vizsla humans wear them with pride as a reminder of the love that a little red dog brings.  We  all miss you, Tipsy.